Bliss Of Being : Our Natural State

When you leave, show them you love them.

By Wayne Hoover

Before she left we sat and hugged and talked about how we choose each other. We said something like this to each other: “I’m leaving now, but I choose you and I love you.”

This trusting reassurance is critical for relationships to flourish, especially poly relationships. That “I’m leaving but I still love you. I still choose you.” This little thing can make a huge difference. Connecting with each bother before we leave is important, especially in the beginning as trust is being developed.